A few weeks ago, I've had the honour of un-virginizing a 23 year-old boy. Not my first. I applaud their courage and feel that they've made the right decision to come to a 'professional' to seek, erm, 'pointers'. I can imagine how awkward it must be for a boy to make the move on his girlfriend while being totally clueless about what to do. You'd think that it's a natural instinct and your limbs will just 'go with the flow' - yeah, sure, at the risk of looking silly and ruining that 'special moment'.
Eric emailed me one day to ask for my services and the process was rather smooth. He was taking a 'break' from studying for exams and needed to de-stress, he said. We agreed on a time and place to meet, and an hour later, there was one less male virgin in the world.
The day after, I got another email from Eric.
"I'd really like to find out if there are any illness..... because I haven't been sleeping or eating well with heavy thoughts in my mind"...
Boy, it's called guilt.
You paid for sex with a whore and now your conscience is eating you up alive. But of course I didn't tell him that. Instead I replied him and played Aunt Angie for a while. Plus, I was positive that I was clean cos I just had that pre-employment medical check-up.
I guess that's the kind of reaction you'd expect when dealing with virgins. You need to be able to provide them with some sort of assurance and comfort them a bit when they're feeling 'shaky' like a shivering baby chick.
As a guy, I'm sure you'd want to show that you've had a certain amount of experience with girls and you know your way around. Most importantly, you want to exude that confidence that you know what you're doing. Problem is, you DON'T.
So now that you're in the bedroom/ couch/ private room etc., what do you do to initiate sex?
I would probably say,
1) Keep a strong eye contact and in your head think about how much you want her. She would be able to see it through your eyes, and that makes her feel desirable and sexy.
2) Start with light touching - Casually drop you hand on her lap, or stroke her hair. Drop down the tone of your voice a notch and compliment her. Women likes to be told they're beautiful (In my case - gorgeous. That is because the girl before me was an ogre).
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Eric emailed me one day to ask for my services and the process was rather smooth. He was taking a 'break' from studying for exams and needed to de-stress, he said. We agreed on a time and place to meet, and an hour later, there was one less male virgin in the world.
Boy, it's called guilt.
You paid for sex with a whore and now your conscience is eating you up alive. But of course I didn't tell him that. Instead I replied him and played Aunt Angie for a while. Plus, I was positive that I was clean cos I just had that pre-employment medical check-up.
I guess that's the kind of reaction you'd expect when dealing with virgins. You need to be able to provide them with some sort of assurance and comfort them a bit when they're feeling 'shaky' like a shivering baby chick.
As a guy, I'm sure you'd want to show that you've had a certain amount of experience with girls and you know your way around. Most importantly, you want to exude that confidence that you know what you're doing. Problem is, you DON'T.
So now that you're in the bedroom/ couch/ private room etc., what do you do to initiate sex?
I would probably say,
1) Keep a strong eye contact and in your head think about how much you want her. She would be able to see it through your eyes, and that makes her feel desirable and sexy.
2) Start with light touching - Casually drop you hand on her lap, or stroke her hair. Drop down the tone of your voice a notch and compliment her. Women likes to be told they're beautiful (In my case - gorgeous. That is because the girl before me was an ogre).
3) Take it slow. Don't be in such a hurry. Unless you need to catch the last train to go home, then maybe just hurry up a bit.
Wait, am I giving pointers here? *LOL* Honestly, these kinda things, you can't read a manual or follow a guide book. It's very HANDS-ON and go by 'feel'. But of course you need experience to know what feels right and not.
For Eric, I would say that his fingers got potential. Cos when we were still playing around, I let him finger me while I rested on my knees and I cummed when rocking to his fingers. Other than that, if I can sum up how sex with virgins are in one word - slobbery.
xoxo.
Wait, am I giving pointers here? *LOL* Honestly, these kinda things, you can't read a manual or follow a guide book. It's very HANDS-ON and go by 'feel'. But of course you need experience to know what feels right and not.
For Eric, I would say that his fingers got potential. Cos when we were still playing around, I let him finger me while I rested on my knees and I cummed when rocking to his fingers. Other than that, if I can sum up how sex with virgins are in one word - slobbery.
xoxo.
